Saturday, April 13, 2013

YEA, YEA, YEA


Great families are really great. Twice a year we have a mothers, daughters, daughters-in-law, cousins get together. We take an all girl road trip. Twice a year. The date of the next one is always planned in the car when we are all together; that way we know the date in plenty of time. The next one is in October; believe me it is on my calendar!!! This time we went to Palestine – not so far away that we spend all our time in the car. This time there were six of us who went. We all have Mama Mc in common; she is a grandmother, greatgrandmother greatgrandmother-in-law, you get the idea. So we have memories and family stories in common.

This year we went to an old country church we used to take our grandmother to. Told old stories about dinner on the grounds, coffee boiled in a huge black iron pot on the grounds. Walks through the grave yard. Told stories about Cynthia Ann Parker and the fact that this church was the first protestant church in Texas. Since Texas was part of Mexico at that time they had to get permission from Mexico to start the church. We older ones had grown up with this story. (A true story.) Went to a wine tasting at Sweet Dreams, and brought home lots of wine. Drove through old town and took photos of a creek running through it. I am sure I will paint picturies of this creek.

A few small mishaps. We backed into a headstone. Did not make a blemish on the headstone but dented the car. We kept closing Wynell up in the back seat of the car – accidentally. She sat in the back to prove she is still agile enough to get back there; then when we would get out we would forget to turn the middle seat down for her to get out. Yes, it really was an accident – most of the time. Some of the young ones always ask why Janet Sue is the only one with a double name. The answer is that they knew she would be a brat and they would need a double name for when they yelled at her. We get connecting rooms so that we can stay up late drinking wine and telling old stories.

Being with people who love you and with whom you have things in common restorith my soul and my cup runnith over.

Judy, we missed you so much.

Saturday, April 6, 2013

SOMETIMES IT IS FUNNY


You may have noticed I can't seem to blog anymore. So this time I am not talking about James – will just talk about dementia in general.

Met a woman the other day whose friend's mother has Alzheimers. The mother has always been a quilter and quilting was now her obsession. She pieced quilts all day long every day. Never quilted them just pieced them. She had lost her ability for design and sometimes put the pieces in wrong side out. Her daughter was going crazy and broke with buying more fabric all the time and the pieced quilt tops were everywhere. Someone told the daughter about thread that disolves in water. So she bought some of this thread for her mother. Now daughter put the newly pieced quilt tops in the washer ever night and the next day presents her mother with new, already cut up quilt pieces and everyone is satisfied. Mother doesn't recognize the fabric or realize she has already done a quilt top out of this and the daughter is relieved to not have to go to buy fabric every evening on the way home from work.

Yes, this is funny – go ahead and laugh. If you live with dementia you realize that laughter if the only thing that keeps us sane - or semi-sane.

And yes, the daughter has saved some of the tops to have as keepsakes.